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Nicolas Cava

Notes on leading yourself, ruthless simplicity, and AI.

Seventeen years of building teams, burning out twice, and starting over, written down.

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  • I missed game night with my daughter

    I missed game night with my daughter. I promised her I'd show up. Her eyes said it all. The kind of disappointment that lands like a punch. Meanwhile: I was...

  • I'm lying if I say I've got it figured out

    I'm lying if I say I've got it figured out. Nobody talks about the complete mess. I post motivational content. While behind the scenes my DMs pile up. And the...

  • Disconnecting fully is a myth

    Disconnecting fully is a myth. You don't need total rest to recover. Founders hear about weekend recharge. The reality? You spend Saturday haunted by Slack....

  • Founders hear about weekend recharge

    Founders hear about weekend recharge. The reality? You spend Saturday haunted by Slack.

  • Fire your full-time CTO

    Fire your full-time CTO. Now. Nobody wants to admit it. Every founder is sold the "tech hire as holy grail" myth. "Investors won't take you seriously without a...

  • Nobody wants to admit it

    Nobody wants to admit it. Every founder is sold the "tech hire as holy grail" myth.

  • Founders don't quit because they're tired

    Founders don't quit because they're tired. They quit because they're lost. Stop obsessing over weekends and work-life balance. Reality check: burnout isn't...

  • Stop obsessing over weekends and work-life balance

    Stop obsessing over weekends and work-life balance. Reality check: burnout isn't just about working too many Saturdays.

  • Ignore founders who say:

    Ignore founders who say: "Our team won't speak up." Silence outspeaks indifference. Silence means you taught them nothing changes. Every leader says they want...

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