How I Broke the Loop
After getting laid off, I found myself caught in a perfectionist spiral—waiting to feel ready again. But readiness never came. Here's what finally got me moving.
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Recent Notes
Authenticity Broke the Rules—and Built Real Leadership
Authenticity isn't just a buzzword—it's a leadership strategy. Showing up as your true self can transform trust, culture, and impact.
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Failure Is the Process, Not the Opposite of Success
We often mistake repeated failure for a lack of progress. But if you're still showing up, you're already ahead.
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Busy ≠ Productive: The Leadership Trap of Activity Tracking
Many leaders fall into the trap of measuring motion instead of progress. Productivity paranoia leads to micromanagement, not results.
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Leadership Isn't About You
Good leadership isn't measured by how much you gain, but by how much you're willing to give up to do right by your people.
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Stronger, Not Easier
A reflection on the one mindset shift that helps me stay grounded when life throws the unexpected.
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Distributed Transactions Are a Systems Problem, Not Just a Tech One
Distributed transactions aren't just a technical problem. They're a systems thinking challenge.
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Rewire Your Brain: Turn Impostor Syndrome into a Tool for Growth
Impostor syndrome isn't a sign you're failing. It's often proof you're growing.
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Starting Over Stronger: Reflections on Confidence, Growth, and Impostor Syndrome
Losing my job recently hit harder than expected. Not just financially — but psychologically.
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