Most of my stress didn't come from real problems.

It came from imagined anxieties about real problems.

That quote from Epictetus hit me hard.

Anxiety isn't fake—it feels real. But it's also a story we tell ourselves. And because it lives in the mind, we can learn to manage it.

As a leader, emotional detachment isn't coldness. It's a form of discipline.

It's what lets me:

• Have hard but necessary conversations
• Deliver feedback without letting discomfort dilute the message
• Make difficult decisions with clarity
• Avoid overthinking and decision paralysis
• Hold space for conflict without escalating it
• Lead with objectivity, not ego

Emotions aren't the enemy. But you can't let them drive.

How do you lead when you're not feeling steady yourself?

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