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Stop Trying to Please Everyone
Nicolas Cava
Edited onEdited on Aug 15, 2025
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Trying to please everyone is the fastest path to becoming no one.
Some people will always think you're too much. Others will think you're not enough.
You'll never win them over—and you don't need to.
Most of them are just drifting through life, unsure of what they stand for.
You? You're building something. You're choosing a path with purpose. You're doing the hard work of becoming.
Let them wander. You've got work to do.
What's one opinion you've let go of that changed everything?
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