The Lonely Reality of Extraverted Founders. 9 Ways to Break Free

Nicolas Cava
Edited onEdited on Sep 16, 2025
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Being an extraverted founder is the loneliest role I've ever had.

It destroyed my emotional resilience.
I made bad decisions and even worse mistakes that I still pay for.
I lost my spark.

And I was not alone:

→ 54% of startup founders burned out last year
→ 30% of founders felt isolation as a major pain
→ Loneliness is one of the top causes of founder burnout

So I built awareness to identify the signals before it's too late.
I now can break this state quickly.
But it took me concrete intention to overcome it.

9 ways that help me out:

1️⃣ Seek public places like coffee shops (noise) or libraries (silence)
2️⃣ Find meetups for tech-related events
3️⃣ Join online communities on Discord, Indie Hackers, or Startup Grind
4️⃣ Rent a coworking space to feed into your social energy
5️⃣ Check regularly with your support network and other entrepreneurs
6️⃣ Attend or teach classes in what you learned from your failures
7️⃣ Seek or offer mentorship for free
8️⃣ Co-create or partner on small projects (even temporarily)
9️⃣ Involve yourself in interest-related groups outside your business

Learn the signals. Hack your way out of it.

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